It's been a year since I told you you couldn't spend the night with me. I will regret that for the rest of my life. If only I said yes, you would still be alive. He wouldn't have hurt you. My heart wouldn't be broken. I know wanting you to be alive is selfish. You're with Jesus. I miss you every day, but most days I'm too scared to open the box of pain I carry around with me. I know if I do, it might eat me alive. I still can't watch the videos of you. It hurts too much. I'm so sorry you died. I know it isn't my fault, but still I'm sorry. I'm sorry I didn't protect you. I'm sorry I let that bad man in my house.
You taught me so much the short time I had you. You taught me how much better life is when I am not living just for my self. You taught me how valuable and vulnerable the life of a child is. You taught me I am stronger than I thought. You taught me how strong love is. It never mattered to me if you were "special needs" or sick forever or whatever. You were perfect. You taught me I was loveable. Every time you were happy to see me and told me over and over "I love you, Stacey." You let me see how someone could discover God with a child's faith. You believed God loved you and God would make you and papa and anybody "better" just because I told you so. My favorite sounds in the world were your laugh and your singing voice.
My small finite brain cannot understand heaven. I love Jesus so much, but I can't wrap my brain around this mystery. I guess I have trouble trusting what people tell me about it, when God tells me so little. I can't fathom something beyond time and space and that maybe you can see me or something, but then I think I don't really want you to watch me when I'm going to the bathroom or watching the Real Housewives on TV. I trust that you're there and you're happy, and that you get to be around my dad and maybe even Andrea's mom, but really I just don't get it. I just have to wait to find out I guess.
I just hope you know how much you changed me. How much I love you. How I promise to try and make your life worth it. I promise I will try and stop other children from hurting. I will try and be a better person because I knew you and not a worse person because you died. I know someday the pain of missing you will grow less stinging and the joy of knowing you will grow more comforting. I hope I'm not letting you down by still hurting so much.
I love you too much.
i love you a lot, stacey b.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts and prayers are with you Stacey and the rest of the family as well. I will pray for your pain to lessen and your joy to increase. We're always here for you! All my love-Heather
ReplyDeleteStacy, I am so sorry for your heart ache, Jace is loved by so many people that never een got the chance to see his smiling face, I dont know you but I know your Mom and if you are anything like her, Jace knows that he is loved. I feel your pain in your words and it brings me to tears, know that there are so many people out there praying for Justice for Jace, waiting on pins and needles for updates..I dont know you hiney but I love you and your whole family..Sunni Haupt
ReplyDeleteOh and know that Jace is right there in my heart next to my grandson Jay..Sunni
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